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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2018 18:25:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>What an exciting month this has been. Maybe my happiest in a while. I set out on a challenge. A letter a day. And today, with just a few minutes to spare, I am about to reach the finish line. To be honest, I wasn&#8217;t very keen on taking up this challenge. Already pressed for [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What an exciting month this has been. Maybe my happiest in a while.</p>
<p>I set out on a challenge. A letter a day. And today, with just a few minutes to spare, I am about to reach the finish line.</p>
<p>To be honest, I wasn&#8217;t very keen on taking up this challenge. Already pressed for time, with a toddler to look after, forever exhausted, it seemed impossible to me. But as they say, there&#8217;s always someone watching over you. For me, it came in the form of my dear friend and confidante Tamanna. She encouraged me to join, pushed me to keep going and motivated me to finish the challenge. Thanks Tammy!</p>
<p>This month has been about rediscovering myself as a writer. I still have miles to go but at least I have started.</p>
<p>I remember April 1 and 2 and 3 and maybe more, when it took me two days just to write one blog. When staring at a blank screen was all I did. And thinking about these last few days when I have written on over ten topics. Some in less than an hour.</p>
<p>I remember feeling under-confident, doubting myself. What if I am not able to write anything? What if no one likes my work? What if I end up making mistakes, etc etc. All those worries are now miles away.</p>
<p>In the last four weeks, I have rediscovered my own grit and level of determination. Deep fire within me egged me on. There were days when I felt that I was wasting my time if I wasn&#8217;t writing. All my focus and thoughts were on this challenge which kept me away from harbouring negative thoughts or dwelling on meaningless worldly concerns.</p>
<p>The last few days &#8211; the determination of completing this challenge, of staying awake till 4 AM to write blogs and waking up at 7 AM to look after my toddler &#8211; have felt nothing less than an adventure-packed, fast-paced movie.</p>
<p>The excitement I felt last night when I realised I was just two blogs from successfully completing this challenge was akin to staying awake on the eve of the maiden international vacation. My mind simply refused to switch off and I kept thinking of what I wanted to write on next.</p>
<p>Thanks, Blog Chatter for giving me an opportunity to feel the zeal again.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2018 21:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Dear Sej,   It&#8217;s been awhile since we met. It&#8217;s been a while since we spent some time together. I miss you. Sometimes.. I catch glimpses of you but you disappear before I can get close enough.  Do you remember the time when the world was your oyster and nothing could stop you from what [&#8230;]</p>
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<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Dear Sej,</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"> </span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>It&#8217;s been awhile since we met. It&#8217;s been a while since we spent some time together. I miss you. Sometimes.. I catch glimpses of you but you disappear before I can get close enough.</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"> </span><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you remember the time when the world was your oyster and nothing could stop you from what you wanted. When you were strong enough to take the journeys you wanted to without  any worry of where they might lead you. When you were adventurous enough to take risks and come out laughing regardless of the results.</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you remember when you did things for yourself.. When you travelled and danced and painted and read. Do you remember when you had dreams and aspirations and goals you wanted to fulfil. When life was not just about trying to be the best mom or the perfect wife.</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"> </span><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Well.. I am ready to meet that girl again. You may think that with the baby your hands are full right now and that you can barely manage your daily chores so how will we have this rendezvous.</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"> </span><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Let me let you in on a lil secret. Everyone is trying. No one is perfect. Let&#8217;s do this together. Bit by bit. Baby steps. Everyday.</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"> </span><span style="color: #800080;"><em>And very soon we&#8217;ll reunite.</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"> </span><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Until then.. stay strong.. hold on and look forward.</em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"> </span><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Yours forever </em></span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Sej</em></span></div>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I remember writing this letter to myself sometime last year. Motherhood is a 24/7, exhilarating yet exhausting job. Bottle and Breastfeedings, diaper change, laundry, cooking, organizing activities for the child, home schooling and later school homework. Sometime during this time, life passes you by. Mommyhood is a never-ending responsibility. One that consumes all your time and energy. While initially, the child is totally dependent on the mother and his only solace in this big bright world, being completely immersed in the role is inevitable.</p>
<p>When the celebration of the arrival of the new baby fades away, when the excitement of the latest addition becomes old news, when the responsibilities of motherhood take over, is when the tug of war starts. The war between a woman and a mother.</p>
<p>We look in the mirror yet we cant find ourselves.</p>
<p><strong>WHY</strong>?</p>
<p>Often mothers lose themselves in the world of motherhood. Our priorities move from ourselves to the baby long after the baby turns into a toddler and then a young child. We immerse ourselves so deep into looking after and caring for the baby that we end up neglecting ourselves. We are often so busy taking care of everyone else that we neglect to take care of ourselves. And if we fail to take care of ourselves, how can we take care of our children?</p>
<p>Many mothers find themselves at this crossroad where they are torn between taking out time for self vs spending time with the baby. And if somehow they do manage to grab some time out for themselves, they are ridden by the guilt of having prioritized themselves over their children. They demonstrate to the kids that they are low on their own list of priorities.</p>
<p><strong>Mommies! STOP! BREATHE! RELAX!</strong> It doesn’t have to be a tug of war! Small things make a huge difference.</p>
<ul>
<li>Hand over the baby for a few hours. Your baby is loved just the same by your husband and family as you.</li>
<li>When they offer help, grab it!</li>
<li>Stop multi-tasking as if your life depends on it.</li>
<li>Learn to say no</li>
<li>Do not judge yourself</li>
<li>Go for a walk</li>
<li>Exercise</li>
<li>Meditate</li>
<li>Go to a coffee shop – even if you are not a coffee drinker</li>
<li>Go on a date night with hubby</li>
<li>Meet friends</li>
<li>Listen to music</li>
<li>Go for a movie</li>
<li>Read a book</li>
<li>Sleep</li>
<li>Take out time for that hobby you loved</li>
<li>Go for a spa</li>
<li>Oil your hair</li>
<li>Remember who YOU are.</li>
</ul>
<p>Remember you cannot pour from an empty vessel. Take care of yourself. Start giving yourself time. Spend time rediscovering the most important person in your life &#8211; <strong>YOU</strong>.</p>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2018 12:53:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>My son is 2 years 4 months and has zero interest in screen &#8211; no matter what kind. When people get to know this, their response is often raised eyebrows and shocked surprise. There are also some light-hearted comments on how I am punishing my child by depriving him of screen time. Well, it is a [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My son is 2 years 4 months and has zero interest in screen &#8211; no matter what kind. When people get to know this, their response is often raised eyebrows and shocked surprise. There are also some light-hearted comments on how I am punishing my child by depriving him of screen time.</p>
<p>Well, it is a personal choice. Parenting is personal. I try not to judge parents who allow too much screen time, having said that it’s not something I appreciate a whole lot either. I am not perfect, neither do I expect others to be. Sharing with you all today my views and how I have been raising my son as a screen-free child.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Welcome to my world. I am a work from home mom which makes screens an inevitable part of my daily routine. Even then, I have managed to keep my son away from all screens, be it TV, laptop, mobiles or tablets. How?</p>
<p>Read on.</p>
<p><strong>Start.</strong></p>
<p>It helps to start off on the right track. An infant has no demands except for milk and sleep and a lot of cuddles. There is absolutely zero requirement of any other thing. Studies indicate that introducing screen to them at such a delicate age can have lasting negative effects on their still-developing brain.</p>
<ul>
<li>We made it a rule to have no screens around Rey when he was an infant. Phones were kept out of sight and he was hardly ever in a room with the TV on. And when he was, his line of vision did not capture the screen.</li>
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<p><strong>Set an example.</strong></p>
<p>Children see, children do. They will never ask you for something they don’t see you and anyone else doing. You cannot be glued to the screen and expect your child to not follow suit. Avoid screens in front of the child. This one is a little difficult for those parents and families whose favourite time pass is watching TV or playing games on the mobile or being obsessed with social media.</p>
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<li>It helps that neither my husband nor I am a fan of TV. We do follow series, however, we catch up on them only after our son has settled for the night. My husband watches football matches but that’s only once in a while. As for the mobile, it is strictly off-limits for our son. His father is not a smartphone fan and I try limiting my usage when he is around. I do click a lot of his photos and make videos but switch off the screen the minute I am done. My son thinks of the phone as a camera as I haven’t let him look at the screen beyond selfies and photos. I openly discourage anyone from showing him their phone as well. Well, yeah – I am only watching out for my son. Sue me! <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.0.3/72x72/1f609.png" alt="😉" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></li>
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<p><strong>Phones are not a substitute. </strong></p>
<p>Parenthood can be overwhelming. Yes. It can drive you nuts. Agreed. It may even make you question your sanity. Has happened to me too. But all it takes is those weak moments to give in and start the circle. Ask someone to step in if you can. Keep extra toys handy. Keep activities ready. Head out for a walk with the baby. Plan your day. Leave room for boredom</p>
<ul>
<li>For the last two years, I have been solo parenting to an only child, Monday to Friday from morning to night. I know how it feels to want a break. But it’s doable.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Habits</strong>.</p>
<p>It’s never too soon to start forming good habits. A general rule in our house is “No phone, No TV” for children.</p>
<ul>
<li>By the time my son was 18 months old, he would not l̥ook at the TV or pick up a mobile</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Hold your ground</strong></p>
<p>Children quickly learn and realize what they can get from where. If you give in too easily, they will only come on stronger next time. Hold your ground.</p>
<ul>
<li>Although Rey hasn’t shown any interest in screens, if anytime something catches his eye and I see him glancing at a phone, I am quick to whisk it away and not give in to his request. On those rare occasions or when on a video call – when he does look at the screen, I ensure he does not get the phone in his hands.</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Now he is almost 2 and a half years old and even if TV is on in the house, he pays no attention. If there are phones lying around, they are just boxes for him, he doesn’t try to switch them on and fiddle with them.</p>
<p>I have, on days, switched on the TV, put on a cartoon, and recorded his reactions to whether he starts watching TV. His response instead has been to ask me to play with him and not even glance towards the screen.</p>
<p>I realize screen time is inevitable with so much digital influence directed towards kids – from videos to games to educational apps. I will introduce it to him slowly and gradually.</p>
<p>But for now, as a wise man once said: “A child should know how to hold a pencil before he learns how to operate a mobile phone”.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It is one of the most talked about topics in modern day parenting. But is it really a new concept? Not really. Babywearing has been prevalent for centuries. Work of famous artists from as far back as 18th century depict women carrying their children on them. In fact as history states, Rani Lakshmi Bai – Queen [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is one of the most talked about topics in modern day parenting. But is it really a new concept?</p>
<p>Not really. Babywearing has been prevalent for centuries. Work of famous artists from as far back as 18<sup>th</sup> century depict women carrying their children on them. In fact as history states, Rani Lakshmi Bai – Queen of Jhansi, wore her son when she went to war against the British.</p>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="513" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20180414_145638_292/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?fit=3024%2C3780&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="3024,3780" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20180414_145638_292" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?fit=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?fit=640%2C800&amp;ssl=1" class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-513 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?zoom=2&amp;resize=150%2C150 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?zoom=3&amp;resize=150%2C150 450w" sizes="(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /></p>
<p>Present day too, if we cast a glimpse at our villages, women carrying their offsprings in their traditional <em>jhola</em> (carrier) is a common sight. If we happen to cross a construction site or maintenance site even in the city, we often see hard-working women carrying their little ones on their back and labouring away. Women and even men around the world are seen wearing their babies with pride and ease.</p>
<figure id="attachment_514" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-514" style="width: 150px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="514" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20180415_193258_869/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180415_193258_869.jpg?fit=3024%2C3780&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="3024,3780" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20180415_193258_869" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Scaling heights &#8211; At Daikund Peak near Dalhousie&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180415_193258_869.jpg?fit=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180415_193258_869.jpg?fit=640%2C800&amp;ssl=1" class="size-thumbnail wp-image-514" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180415_193258_869.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180415_193258_869.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180415_193258_869.jpg?zoom=2&amp;resize=150%2C150 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180415_193258_869.jpg?zoom=3&amp;resize=150%2C150 450w" sizes="(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-514" class="wp-caption-text">Scaling heights &#8211; At Daikund Peak near Dalhousie</figcaption></figure>
<p>We started baby wearing pretty late, something I regret now. We had bought our first carrier when my baby was around 4 months and sold it by the time he was six months. Why? Because it was the wrong choice of carrier and my baby was not comfortable in it and neither were we as parents wearing it. I am glad we resumed when we did. Better late than never.</p>
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<p>There are numerous advantages of babywearing. Happy to be sharing the top 5 basis my experience.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Babywearing makes traveling easier</strong>. For people who know us as, know we are travelers. We love exploring new places, new cultures, interacting with locals, etc. After we had our son, we wanted to continue our passion for traveling the world. Babywearing made that possible.</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Babywearing keeps my baby close to be hence no fear of crowded places.</li>
<li>Can easliy manage my luggage and baby at public places like airports, train stations, bus deopts, etc</li>
<li>Do not have to carry a stroller. A carrier anytime takes less space and is lighter. I’d happily save my baggage space for some shopping while traveling.</li>
<li>No place is off limits due to the terrain – we even went trekking with our baby to a peak in Dalhousie.</li>
<li>Don’t have to keep looking for an elevator to maneuver as is the case with a stroller.</li>
<li>When visiting the hills – like we love doing – it keeps my baby snug and warm</li>
<li>You can be out exploring for long and your baby will not tire of walking as babywearing gives both baby and parents a break.</li>
</ul>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="513" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20180414_145638_292/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?fit=3024%2C3780&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="3024,3780" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20180414_145638_292" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?fit=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?fit=640%2C800&amp;ssl=1" class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-513 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?zoom=2&amp;resize=150%2C150 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180414_145638_292.jpg?zoom=3&amp;resize=150%2C150 450w" sizes="(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /></p>
<ol start="2">
<li><strong>Babywearing promotes bonding</strong>. It allows you to keep your baby close, hence they feel safer. They can feel you next to them, hear your voice, and feel the warmth of your body. Studies reveal that babies who are carried or worn, tend to heal faster. Babywearing means you automatically have more physical contact with your little one ultimately strengthening the attachment between the parent and the child.</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>I have sometimes worn my son even inside the house, especially during the days he was sick and we were with no help. He was a lot calmer and relaxed when worn.</li>
</ul>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="508" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20171208_092132_734/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?fit=2640%2C2640&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="2640,2640" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20171208_092132_734" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?fit=640%2C640&amp;ssl=1" class="size-thumbnail wp-image-508 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?w=1280 1280w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171208_092132_734.jpg?w=1920 1920w" sizes="(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /> <img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="512" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20180412_230437_274/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180412_230437_274.jpg?fit=2152%2C2631&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="2152,2631" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20180412_230437_274" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180412_230437_274.jpg?fit=245%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180412_230437_274.jpg?fit=640%2C782&amp;ssl=1" class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-512 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180412_230437_274.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180412_230437_274.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180412_230437_274.jpg?zoom=2&amp;resize=150%2C150 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180412_230437_274.jpg?zoom=3&amp;resize=150%2C150 450w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /></p>
<ol start="3">
<li><strong>Hands-free!</strong> Which basically means freedom and independence. Yes, since you’re not using your arms to carry the baby, your hands are free to tackle the endless household chores or finish your work and meet that dealing looming around the corner.</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>I have carried my son and gone shopping, stepped out for walks, written blogs, done multi-tasking all the while keeping y baby close.</li>
</ul>
<figure id="attachment_510" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-510" style="width: 150px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="510" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20180305_204753_437/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180305_204753_437-e1524904763902.jpg?fit=1445%2C2255&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="1445,2255" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20180305_204753_437" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;A walk in the park&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180305_204753_437-e1524904763902.jpg?fit=192%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180305_204753_437-e1524904763902.jpg?fit=640%2C999&amp;ssl=1" class="size-thumbnail wp-image-510" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180305_204753_437-e1524904763902-150x150.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180305_204753_437-e1524904763902.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180305_204753_437-e1524904763902.jpg?zoom=2&amp;resize=150%2C150 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180305_204753_437-e1524904763902.jpg?zoom=3&amp;resize=150%2C150 450w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-510" class="wp-caption-text">A walk in the park</figcaption></figure>
<ol start="4">
<li><strong>Exercise</strong> – Carrying your baby is nothing less than a workout. Wearing makes it a lot easier however, has a similar impact.</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>My only workout on days was wearing my baby and going for walks. I love walking, so mommy and baby both happy!</li>
</ul>
<figure id="attachment_509" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-509" style="width: 150px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="509" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20180111_184615_161/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?fit=2464%2C2464&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="2464,2464" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20180111_184615_161" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;In Old Manali &#8211; the day we walked 10 kms &lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?fit=640%2C640&amp;ssl=1" class="size-thumbnail wp-image-509" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?w=1280 1280w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20180111_184615_161.jpg?w=1920 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-509" class="wp-caption-text">In Old Manali &#8211; the day we walked 10 kms</figcaption></figure>
<ol start="5">
<li><strong>Keeps Toddler tantrums at bay</strong> – I’ve often noticed how my son throws a lot less tantrums when being carried as opposed to being on his own. I have total control over his movements so can easily manage him &#8211; and prevent him from making a scene &#8211; in the middle of a mall &#8211; flat on the ground. You get the picture!</li>
</ol>
<p><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-attachment-id="507" data-permalink="https://www.raisingrehaan.com/wearing-your-baby-spoiling-or-strengthening/img_20171113_173902_059/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171113_173902_059.jpg?fit=2268%2C4032&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="2268,4032" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_20171113_173902_059" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171113_173902_059.jpg?fit=169%2C300&amp;ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171113_173902_059.jpg?fit=576%2C1024&amp;ssl=1" class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-507 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171113_173902_059.jpg?resize=150%2C150" alt="" width="150" height="150" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171113_173902_059.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171113_173902_059.jpg?zoom=2&amp;resize=150%2C150 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.raisingrehaan.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/IMG_20171113_173902_059.jpg?zoom=3&amp;resize=150%2C150 450w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /></p>
<p>Though babywearing is a personal choice and the discussion around it is endless. While some people claim that wearing your baby may end up making him clingy and spoil him. I beg to differ. On the contrary, Babywearing gives your child a sense of security and comfort.  It has been a boon for us and our baby. My son is now 28 months and weighs 12 kgs (all the more reason for to ensure we pack our carrier when we head out) and babywearing has come to our rescue many-a-times.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2018 16:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>What’s in the name they say. Well, EVERYTHING! It is what will become your identity for your entire life. It is one of the first things a couple starts to think about even before their child is born. While some couples take a lot of factors into consideration, some want the most unique name for [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>What’s in the name they say</strong></em>. Well, EVERYTHING! It is what will become your identity for your entire life.</p>
<p>It is one of the first things a couple starts to think about even before their child is born. While some couples take a lot of factors into consideration, some want the most unique name for their child. Some like it trendy, some traditional. As expectant parents, we too were super excited about what or rather who was to come. Not knowing the gender of the unborn baby only added to that excitement. Fortunately for us, neither of our families believed in consulting the pundits for a letter to pick a name from, so our options weren’t limited.</p>
<p>And so started the task of jotting down names that we both already liked, asking for recommendations from family and friends, picking names off our favourite TV series (skipped GoT though, imagine Tyrion or Hound going down in that list!) and movies. My friends shared excel sheets with thousands of names in them. No kidding! I am guilty of skimming past most of them though.</p>
<p>My husband and I looked up meanings, pronunciations, and variations of quite a few names. We discussed and disagreed, ooh and aahed and kept narrowing down the list.</p>
<p>Finally, around the eight month of my pregnancy, we narrowed down the names to five. Five boy names and five girl names.</p>
<p>And by the time it was time for the baby to arrive, we had zeroed in on one name – each for a boy and a girl.</p>
<p>I had really, like really wanted and prayed for a baby girl, right from the time I suspected I was pregnant till the time I was in the OT (yes C-sec because my baby refused to let go of the umbilical cord) till the very moment the doc brought the baby in front of my eyes. My gynaec asked me then “Sejal what do you think? Boy or Girl?” Even then my response was GIRL! And then she showed me my baby’s face and before she could tell me who had arrived, I was already head over heels for the little, pink bundle in front of me. That point in time, it didn’t matter what I wanted. What mattered was that I had been blessed. Blessed with the most adorable baby boy I had ever laid my eyes on. And my heart called out and welcomed the baby.</p>
<p>Why did we choose that name? Where did it lead us? Click on the link to finish reading the story:</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2018 07:57:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>“You’re always going to wonder if you’re doing things wrong, but that’s what it means to be a mom, to care so much about someone else that you just want to be as perfect as possible.” —Naya Rivera There’s no guidebook to the motherhood journey. It solely relies on instinct and experience. When I became [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3 class="rtecenter" style="padding-left: 60px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993366;"><em>“You’re always going to wonder if you’re doing things wrong, but that’s what it means to be a mom, to care so much about someone else that you just want to be as perfect as possible.” </em></span><span style="color: #993366;"><em>—Naya Rivera</em></span></h3>
<p>There’s no guidebook to the motherhood journey. It solely relies on instinct and experience.</p>
<p>When I became a mother (still has that fresh ting to it :)), I had no idea what modern-day parenting was, I didn’t know what BLW or sleep training was, I had no clues about attachment parenting or gentle parenting, I was unaware of baby-wearing and the evolution of cloth diapering, I was clueless about Montessori learning methodologies, and the list can go on and on.</p>
<p>All I knew was that I had been blessed with a healthy, adorable little bundle who will undoubtedly demand all my time and love. All I knew was that I was going to do the best I could for my child. I wasn’t a part of any race or a competition. I wasn’t out there trying to show “how it’s done”. I wasn’t trying to earn the title of a “good mother” or a “hands-on mother”. All I was trying to do (and still do is) what I feel is good for my child’s well-being.</p>
<p>As my journey progressed, I learned from my experience, I learned from those around. But the biggest and the most important lesson I learned was to listen to my mom-instincts. I confess, when I was a new mommy, there were times when I had been influenced by how other moms were dealing with motherhood. I gained insight, learned a lot of things I had no clue about, and I am forever grateful for those who made me aware and shared their experiences. But there were also times I regretted not following my gut. There were times when their hit, sure-shot formula backfired when I tried it. I realized what my elders expected me to do wasn&#8217;t always the right or the only way to do it.</p>
<p>When you become a mother, there are as many pieces of advice as the well-meaning people you know. It is easy to get lost in the sea of unsolicited advice you receive.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993366;"><em><strong>Here </strong></em><em><strong>are</strong></em><em><strong> my biggest learnings from my motherhood journey I have been on so far.</strong></em></span></p>
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<li><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>TRUST</strong> </span>your instincts. It doesn’t mean turn a deaf ear to what other experienced mothers have to say. It simply means, follow your heart. If you feel, what they say is what might work for you, go for it. But if you feel it’s not right, no matter how pressured you feel, don’t follow that advice. My golden rule has been to – Listen to all, do as your heart says.</li>
<li>It’s not a <span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>race</strong></span>! It’s an experience. Enjoy your journey. Don’t let how others are raising their children overwhelm you. Like no two pregnancies are the same, no two children are the same. And hence, the way they are brought up will also differ.</li>
<li>There is no such thing as bad <span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>parenting</strong> </span>or good parenting. Only parents doing what they consider is the best basis their experience and capabilities.</li>
<li><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Learn, try, move on.</strong></span> Yes. There will be failures along the way. And that’s absolutely fine. Learn from your child. Get up and start walking again.</li>
<li><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Social media is not an expert</strong></span>. There is only so much an Instagram account can tell you. Yes, there are tons of insta-moms (including myself) out there, thousands of blogs (including this one) that will give help you understand this journey, but only a mother can truly understand what her child truly needs.</li>
<li><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Motherhood journey</strong>:</span> Document if you want to. Maintain privacy if you think that’s how you will be comfortable. Don’t get influenced by others.</li>
<li> If there is one person <span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>you should follow</strong></span>, follow your doctor’s advice. And your child’s pediatrician.</li>
<li><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Make life simpler</strong> </span>for yourself by blocking anyone who makes you feel inferior. Without meaning to do so, some people end up making you feel bad. Instead of feeling inspired, you end up feeling miserable. Ctl+Alt-Del. End task. Or at least distance yourself till you become stable.Unless they inspire you.</li>
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<p>And lastly, <span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>ignore</strong> </span>these points if you feel they won&#8217;t and don&#8217;t add value to your journey. It&#8217;s as simple as that. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.0.3/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p><span style="color: #993366;"><em><span style="color: #993366;">We&#8217;re always learning &#8211; it doesn&#8217;t matter from whom, others or your own experiences. As long as we do what&#8217;s best for these tiny humans, is what matters.</span></em></span></p>
<p><strong>Would love to hear about your experience and what helped you or is helping you stay a positive person. Or what have your challenges been and how are you dealing with them.</strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you noticed how boys usually pick up habits their fathers have or girls trying to imitate their moms? And although these children love both their parents just the same, they often tend to look up to their own gender as role models to follow. Parents are the biggest influencers in a child’s early age. [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you noticed how boys usually pick up habits their fathers have or girls trying to imitate their moms? And although these children love both their parents just the same, they often tend to look up to their own gender as role models to follow.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">Parents are the biggest influencers in a child’s early age.</span></strong> Everything they do or don’t do will have a direct impact on the development of the child. The first five years are known as the formative years of a baby’s life. These growing up years play a fundamental role in the child’s physical, cognitive and social skills and development. It is these years that will later define your child’s personality, health, and interests.</p>
<p>My husband and I are like-minded in many aspects. We were both very clear about the way we wanted to raise Rehaan even before the baby arrived in this world. He is now a 28 months old toddler who adores his father and follows his every move.</p>
<p><em><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>So this post is dedicated to Rehaan&#8217;s father. His role-model.</strong></span></em></p>
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<p>And honestly, I am not surprised as Mr, Husband is an extremely involved father. He works full-time in a dynamic role that requires all his energy and time. Yet, he manages to lead a life he is happy and content with.</p>
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<li><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>He exercises</strong></span> (cross-fit, muscle-building, calisthenics, yoga, running) for an hour or ninety minutes every day. The brutal winters cannot stop him, the humidity does not deter him, rain only motivates him more and holidays are an excuse to exercise longer.
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<li>Rehaan can be seen trying to do push-ups, asanas or generally stretching in his own toddler ways trying to imitate his father.</li>
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<li><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>He reads.</strong></span> From books to newspapers to articles. Being an English (H) student, that habit has stayed with him over the years.
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<li>Rehaan likes books. Yes, there came a phase (4-5 months) where he had lost interest in books, but its back now. His books travel with him wherever we go now.</li>
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</li>
<li>Mr. Husband <span style="color: #008080;"><strong>didn&#8217;t own a smartphone</strong> </span>until last year. Yes. He belongs to an almost extinct species of humans who are not very fond of technology and had stayed away from it all for the longest time. Even now, he accesses data-based apps only at night for a while before sleeping. TV is for matches only. And that doesn’t happen very often either.
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<li>Rehaan has no fascination with phones or TV. Because he doesn’t see his parents glued to the idiot boxes. Ahem.. here I  will unabashedly take the credit too as Rehaan and I are together 24X7 and I’ve managed to keep him away from any kind of screen. (saving that for another day)</li>
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</li>
<li>Mr. Husband is <strong><span style="color: #008080;">an outdoor person</span></strong> (we have that in common. Did someone say MFEO? But since this post is about him, I’ll mention only his interests). He loves walking through nature trails and parks and being close to nature.
<ul>
<li>Rehaan is turning out to be the same. Not a surprise as he is simply following his parent’s footsteps.</li>
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</li>
<li>Mr. Hubba is <strong><span style="color: #008080;">an ardent football fan.</span> </strong>
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<li>If you’ve been following raising_rehaan’s insta stories, you will already be familiar with how much he loves playing the game too.</li>
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</li>
<li>Mr. Husband is <strong><span style="color: #008080;">a health-nut.</span></strong> He is a rabbit who can survive on veggies all around the year. He is one of those who would make sure to check the ingredients label on any packed food item. No, he is not finicky, he is simply conscious of what goes into his stomach and body.
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<li>Rehaan loved eating veggies too. His favourite these days is Orca (bhindi). Oh! he loves pasta too (that he takes from me, so I make sure I give him the healthy version of <a href="http://www.raisingrehaan.com/dalpasta/">Pasta in Daal Sauce &#8211; recipe here</a>)</li>
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</li>
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<p>This father-son duo is truly living up to the proverb &#8211; Like Father, Like Son.</p>
<p>And though there are days when I forget to appreciate Mr. Husband for his support (and there are a lot of such days), I couldn&#8217;t have asked for more. He truly inspires me and everyone around him to lead a simple and healthy life. I am a proud wife and a fortunate mother to have Mr. Husband as family.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>An eyewash. Yes, that’s what I like to call it. Parties, club hopping, designer dresses and Stuart Weitzman. Ok, maybe not Stuart, that’s taking it too far. Guccis and Louboutins. Fancy hotels, expensive Liqueurs, and postcard photos. A larger than life lifestyle. Perfect pout, high heels, and salon ready hair. This &#8211; while working in [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An eyewash. Yes, that’s what I like to call it.</p>
<p>Parties, club hopping, designer dresses and Stuart Weitzman. Ok, maybe not Stuart, that’s taking it too far. Guccis and Louboutins.</p>
<p>Fancy hotels, expensive Liqueurs, and postcard photos. A larger than life lifestyle.</p>
<p>Perfect pout, high heels, and salon ready hair. This &#8211; while working in the kitchen which doesn’t have anything out of place or even a stain to prove that anything has ever been used.</p>
<p>These photos portray a life one can’t help but wish for.</p>
<p>That is social media for you. Where everyone (well almost) is trying to portray a life so perfect that the gullible and unsuspecting might end up feeling like complete losers.</p>
<p>Their picture-perfect lives, spotless homes, fancy lifestyle is what people start wishing for. What they do not realize is that it’s more often than not a sham. That the “memories” are often staged, that the “moment” is specially set up for a photo-op. In a bid to maintain the “perfect” virtual profile, they sacrifice a lot more in their real life.</p>
<p>That kitchen.. it was cleaned especially for the photo. And all the items which usually decorate the slab, shoved into a corner and out of the camera frame.</p>
<p>That picturesque snap that made you yearn to travel to the place took him hours to edit and process.</p>
<p>Those adorable smiles in that candid shot? Well, that’s one out of the hundred shots which were clicked that day which wasn’t blurred or unbalanced in composition.</p>
<p>Those parties? Those check-ins? Well, how does you paryting, getting drunk and getting clicked in a hundred different poses interest me anyway?</p>
<p>If we start comparing us to what we see on social media, we would never be satisfied with what we have and how we are. It’s a facade. Next time you see a profile and wish for a life like their’s, think again. Think if you really want to live in an illusion. Or would you rather live a life that’s real?</p>
<p>Would you like to live in a grid or a bubble or would you rather <em><strong>keep it real?</strong></em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>For as long as she could remember, she had been fiercely independent. Wanting to do things on her own, travel on her own, being self-dependent, funding her aspirations herself. She started working right after school. An ambitious, young girl, ready to take on the world. Confident, well-read and well-spoken, she cracked the very first interview [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>For as long as she could remember, she had been fiercely independent. Wanting to do things on her own, travel on her own, being self-dependent, funding her aspirations herself. She started working right after school. An ambitious, young girl, ready to take on the world. Confident, well-read and well-spoken, she cracked the very first interview she appeared for.</em></p>
<p><em>A keen learner, she picked up the ropes of the corporate world pretty quickly. From a newbie to a professional, she soon garnered enough experience and appreciation to try for bigger and better roles. She got what she went after. There wasn’t an interview she wasn’t able to crack. She quickly rose through the ranks. A favourite among her audience and admired by her co-workers, she worked hard to prove her mettle. She saved most of her salary. She travelled, she explored.</em></p>
<p><em>Soon there was enough in her kitty to fulfil her dreams and support her family, she rewarded herself by buying herself a car. A childhood dream of being able to drive, sitting behind the wheel, zooming past the landscape, feeling the wind on her face (ok.. AC, given the unapologetic weather and pollution in her city), listening to the slight hum of music in the background.</em></p>
<p><em>Life was good. She had a loving clan, friends who were family. She had everything going for her. She even met someone who was perfect for her. In a whirlwind romance sort of way, they met, dated, got engaged and married – all within a few months. She was growing not just as an individual but also professionally. There was only one thing left to complete the picture. And God was kind enough to bless them with it – a baby.</em></p>
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<p><em>She couldn’t have been happier. She was blessed. She adored her baby, spent sleepless nights making sure he was comfortable, made sure he got the best of upbringing. She was termed as a model parent. She was glad to be able to spend those crucial years with her son. Helping him through the formative years of his life.</em></p>
<p><em>But life changed.</em></p>
<p><em>As much as she loved her son, there was always something nagging her. Having worked almost all of her adult life, she didn’t know how to cope with being at home all day long. There wasn’t a moment to rest yet she felt the hours dragging by. There was something she felt that kept piercing her from within.</em></p>
<p><em>She felt caged. She felt suffocated. She knew she wasn’t happy. She could never be – for she wasn’t built that way. She wasn’t built to stay at home. It was the biggest dilemma she had ever faced in her life. But she admitted and accepted the fact.</em></p>
<p><em>She missed it.</em></p>
<p><em>She missed the independence. She missed working. She missed the environment. She missed the brain-storming. She missed nurturing in a different way. She missed the adrenalin rush that came with each presentation. She missed getting ready every day. Missed the appreciations her hard work brought in. She missed the financial independence, missed growing and learning.</em></p>
<p><em>She missed it.</em></p>
<p><em>Being a parent is the most overwhelming reward ever. There are things you need to choose between. These decisions are not always as easy or as obvious as the society makes them</em><em> be. There are expectations. There are restrictions. There are examples. There is unsolicited advice. It takes time to accept your own decisions. </em></p>
<p><em>Being a parent is life-changing. It takes time to give up the independence that was a part of you. </em></p>
<p><em>One is your heart and the other is your way of being. There are no comparisons. There can never be.</em><em> </em><em>It is about finding the inner peace.</em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>They’re often called by various names. Dada, Dadu, Dadi, Nana, Nanu, Nani, Nani-ma, Bade papa, Badi ma being the favourites amongst many. They are our Grandparents. &#160; I have fond memories of my childhood when holidays and school breaks meant a visit to Nani House. Bags were packed and countdowns recited with uncontained excitement. Nani [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They’re often called by various names. Dada, Dadu, Dadi, Nana, Nanu, Nani, Nani-ma, Bade papa, Badi ma being the favourites amongst many. They are our Grandparents.</p>
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<p>I have fond memories of my childhood when holidays and school breaks meant a visit to Nani House. Bags were packed and countdowns recited with uncontained excitement. Nani house meant loads of hugs, love and pampering. Not that any of that was missing at our own home where we stayed with Dadi. But the exclusivity of the visits and the distance does make a difference.</p>
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<p>Those were the days when mobile phones were only heard of in movies. When internet did not exist and video calls via satellite were only used by the Intelligence agencies or NASA. So it was either good old landline calls or visits.</p>
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<p>I remember our Sunday visits. Every weekend, we would all pile up in our car and Papa would drive us halfway across the city just in time for the Mahabharata to start. Nani would have chilled Shikanji ready for us. All ten or twelve of us would make ourselves comfortable in one room, half of us on the bed, some on the couch, remaining on the floor or wherever they could fit themselves. It was a huge bungalow, but Sunday called for everyone to be united and together.</p>
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<p>Those were the days when we still had 24 hours in a day and they were enough.</p>
<p>Afternoons were spent playing with my uncles. Teams were made and unmade. At the end of the games, there were only winners, no losers. Nanu – Nani made sure of that. Our favourite game back then was Ludo and Patte pe patta. A far cry from the high-tech apps and games that currently rule the life of children these days. I hope and wish that I can one day play these long-forgotten board games with my toddler and revisit my childhood with him.</p>
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<p>I remember how my Nani would make us pluck her greys by rewarding us for every grey strand we found and got rid of. 25 paise for every 5 strands. That, in those days, for a child was a lot of money. I still wonder how my Granny managed to retain her crowning glory after putting such a glorious offer on the table. Maybe we weren’t as naughty as they said we were or maybe she was much too smart for us naïve kids.</p>
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<p>I remember the days when spring meant sleeping under the stars. Armed with a cot each, we would set camp on the terrace of the house. The day would end listening to my Grandfather recite stories and falling asleep gazing at the stars. Those were the days when families could sleep on their rooftops and not worry about some crazy Monkey-man attacking them or waking up to find a member of the family missing.</p>
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<p>I remember the visits to the local market with Nanu-Nani. How they would hold our tiny hand with their frail hands never once letting go. I remember the weekly visit to the golgappa shop with them and how they indulged us with that “last golgappa” every time I would plead for one.</p>
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<p>I remember all this and more. All I have are happy fond memories of my time with them. I am blessed to still have them around, to shower their love and blessings on us and their great-grandson. I wish I could meet them more often, spend more time with them, for I know life goes on and one day we all will too. But until then, I want to make the most of it.</p>
<p>I want Rehaan to experience the same love and joy that only a grandparent can give to his grandchild. I want him to spend time with his parent&#8217;s parents. I want him to have a treasure trove of memories like I do.</p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children.&#8221;</em> <strong>– <a href="http://www.legacy.com/news/legends-and-legacies/alex-haleys-roots/1262/">Alex Haley</a></strong></p>
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